Surviving the Anxiety of COVID-19

Tips from a Mental Health Professional.

As a psychologist, even I am not immune to the anxiety of COVID-19 and the constantly changing course of events and how it is affecting our lives.  Married and with children who are still in high school, we have had the difficult discussions of how to cope with the “new normal.”  Anxiety has increased ten-fold even before this virus and is now exponentially greater and even more intense for many people.  Anxiety is experienced or manifests in different ways depending on the individual and their coping resources or tools.  Physically, it feels like shortness of breath, dizziness, nervousness, brain fog and poor concentration to name a few.  It can also feel like you have run out of energy and feel constantly fatigued.  Mentally, and emotionally, it feels overwhelming, stressful, or scary.  It can come in the form of inertia, when you feel like putting tasks off for later, and later never comes.  So, embrace your anxiety and label it, or give it a name like Bob or Jane.  Don’t fear it or feed it.  Change your thoughts regarding your need for control by focusing on what you can control.  

Understand that loved ones will feel angry or irritable as their anxiety increases with each postponement, cancellation, furlough or layoff.  Try to put yourself in their shoes and be patient with them and try to understand the reason for their concerns.    Social distancing and all of this uncertainty is the new normal and we don’t know how long this new normal will last    If you anticipate it to end quickly then it will feel like a car ride that you expected was only going to take 20 minutes and at the 15 minute mark you were informed it would last 9 days in that car with your whole family pilled in and one pit stop per day for lunch and no internet or playlist to access.  So make plans for this to last a while. 

Create a new routine.  All of us are out of our normal work or school routines that allow us to predict what happens next.  We also need to get back as much of an old routine as possible.  If we get up in the morning for work or school at a certain time, then keep that time.  Lunch, exercise, socialization and activities need to occur if possible around that same time to create the feeling of routine and structure.  Structure and routine allow us to predict what is next thus decreasing the feeling of anxiety. 

Balance your day with exercise, fresh air, humor, and new and creative ways of socializing.  Learn a new skill or hobby that will serve as a much needed distraction.  Limit screen time and your exposure to notifications of breaking news, rumors, or false information.  Check your news feed less often perhaps limiting to once per hour.  Add calming activities to your day such as meditation, mindfulness, and deep breathing.  If you are able, get outside and play.  Visit nature and notice all the things that you missed before.  Walk through your neighborhood or park and think about what you are grateful for or record it in a gratitude journal.  

When we are experiencing anxiety and stress it is difficult to be creative and think of things to do so, make a “menu” for yourself and loved ones of things to do when you are feeling anxious.  Get support from friends and family.  Ask for assistance.  It is beneficial to talk to a mental health provider who can support you and help you access and sharpen your coping tools or add to your tool box as you work hard to maintain your loved ones anxiety and your concerns during this uncertain time.

All mental health professionals are now conducting therapy sessions via tele-mental health.  This means that you can contact a licensed mental health provider in your area through your phone, cell phone, or computer.   Stay safe, stay healthy, be responsible and stay apart. 

Cut Thanksgiving Stress in Four Easy Steps

The holidays are supposed to be a welcome break from the stresses of work. However, for some who are returning home to break bread with their families, often find themselves frustrated and stressed as they attempt to deal with family issues and old dysfunctional patterns of behavior.  Holidays can also be difficult for an individual who has lost a family member or whose family or a support network is far away.  Link to the article.

The economy is still trying to recover and for many, the holidays are an in your face reminder that budgets are still tight and gift giving is difficult.  The holidays are also a difficult time for those trying to manage their weight.  Trying to say no to Aunt Jenny’s apple pie can be quite difficult when trying to count carbs especially when you know she makes great pies. A  recent article published by  the American Psychological Association has helpful holiday tips for parents with young children and those watching their waist lines. Link to the article.

Dr. Karen Wolman

As a Licensed Psychologist, Dr. Wolman offers professional guidance, support, education, and treatment in a safe and caring environment. Dr. Karen Wolman has conducted Psychological Evaluations and Psychotherapy since 1993. She has been in private practice in the Southwest Orlando area since 2001. She has extensive training and experience working with individuals ranging in age from 10 to 88. She treats those with varying levels of psychological distress such as depression and anxiety. Dr. Wolman is bilingual and understands the culture of those who speak the Spanish language.

Can We Help You?

Have you ever thought to yourself: “Maybe I should talk to an unbiased psychologist to help me sort through some issues rather than my friend or family member?”

If you have experienced any of the following it would benefit you to talk to Dr. Wolman:

  • Is your career interfering with your relationships?
  • Are you having trouble getting along with your co-workers?
  • Is your relationship getting stagnant?
  • Do you have a problem communicating with your partner?
  • Are you a caregiver whose responsibilities have become overwhelming?
  • Do you experience headaches, muscle tension or stomach aches due to a demanding work/ life schedule?
  • Have others told you that you have been snappy and irritable lately and is it effecting your work or relationships?
  • Do you dread waking up in the morning and facing the day?
  • Do you worry a lot and feel like you are not enjoying things like you used to?
  • Is your family unable to accept your sexual orientation? Do you feel you have to hide your sexual orientation from your co-workers or boss?


Life choices can sometimes be overwhelming. Why not get help to make better, smarter choices? For example, Dr. Wolman can help you focus on issues such as weight loss and management using a proven, scientific, behavioral approach.

Happy Couples

When disagreements arise, how well do you communicate with your partner? Working with a trained psychologist can help you learn more effective tools to help strengthen your relationship and avoid the common pitfalls of relationship stress. Learn how to express and receive caring thoughts and behaviors that have lasting positive changes.


When you are suddenly faced with loss, the support of family and friends is very important. It is also beneficial to obtain the help of a licensed psychologist who can guide you through the grief process.


Teen Age Stresses


The stresses of middle and high school can be overwhelming.  Therapy can help with coping strategies.